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Women in charge: Journey into Female Erotic Leadership //SOLD OUT//

9.9.2017 - 10.9.2017

Have you always wanted to learn how to be an authentic, powerful, sexy, dominant woman?

Do you want to understand power dynamics better and discover which situations make you gain and lose power?

Do you wish to explore in this safe and playful environment with other open-minded, adventurous, real women?

Increase your confidence and become more empowered as a woman and human being, not just in the bedroom, but in all aspects of your life.


What we offer you

Skills – We will be exploring the power, passion, playfulness and depth of BDSM, diving deeper into desires and searching out boundaries as we co-create a safe, yet not limiting, experience

Sisterhood – Join us on this mission to see other women as allies and move from a place of competition to one of compassion, appreciating, encouraging and nurturing our sisters

Responsibility – Let’s take the responsibility in our own hands and move away from the notion that people will fix things for us (and complain when they get it wrong)

Leadership – Model good practice to others with patience and grace, while avoiding patterns of complaint and resentment


What is going to happen

Through a series of games, thought-provoking exercises and skills practise, together we will create a space where you can find the dominant woman within you. Through her, you will uncover your true desires, what it is you want and how you rule the world.

You are going to use BDSM as a tool for empowerment to learn more about your personal power story. You going to learn to how to use BDSM toys, such as floggers, canes, paddles and, of course, your hands (no rope bondage this time). You will be invited to switch from submissive to dominant to know both sides of the coin and learn from both experiences. We aim to encourage the dominance within you and give it space to flourish and come into all aspects of your life. We invite you to claim it as your own.

We will support each other on that journey, acknowledging layers of conditioning which often stop us being real and kind to ourselves and others.

To complete the workshop, you will be provided with a group of well-trained submissive men, so that you can practise your newly-gained skills. We’ll be there to support you every step of the way.

Your boundaries will always be respected, just as we expect you to respect those of others.



Marti & Wilrieke are creating a female only workshop where you can come to the basics of BDSM and its techniques in a circle of like-minded women.

About Wilriekewww.purewilrieke.com

From cuddles to kink, from feathers to floggers: Wilrieke embodies the full spectrum of intimacy and facilitates workshops and sessions on intimacy internationally. Starting with creating intimacy with oneself, Wilrieke loves to open spaces for people to explore in a playful and safe way.

Besides being a single mother of three daughters, Wilrieke is a life adventurer, sharing openly about her explorations in sexuality, (open) relationships and becoming an empowered being.

About Martiwww.soundofbirch.com

Marti is a passionate and experienced practitioner and facilitator in the field of sexuality, working internationally since 2010, currently based in London, UK. She loves to create spaces where we can explore our depths and our limits, preferably by having a really great time.

Her new invitation is for women to bring what we learn in the bedroom into everyday life. The kinky skills which we develop give us a route into the delicate art of power dynamics which are at constant play in all kinds of human interaction. This is a chance for us to be more in charge of our lives, no longer compromising on who we are and what we want. Marti’s personal story sits firmly behind her work and inspires other to contribute to the world with their power and their vulnerability, their wisdom and their authenticity.


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Utrech NL
Utrecht, Netherlands + Google Map